This morning I found live bullets in the washing machine
(which explained the banging noises I heard while the cycle was going). Suitable
for a semi-automatic machine gun (M-16 to be exact) the bullets seemed to have
enjoyed their time in the suds, came out looking quite clean and ready for “action.”
Why was I not so surprised? My oldest son, Adin, was home
from the army this past Shabbat. That means laundry. Theoretically there are washing machines on
his base, but he wasn’t on his base, and anyway, he came straight home after spending about ten days on the border with Gaza.
Now, I have been a parent for 22 years, and thus have been
doing other people’s laundry for quite some time. But bullets? That’s a first.
My initial reaction was “wow, glad that all that shaking
around didn’t cause the gunpowder to explode.”
Second reaction: “hope the
washing machine didn’t get damaged.”
Finally I realized I had just found machine gun bullets in
the laundry. And that is not “normal.” Chewing gum – super annoying, but
normal. Wrappers from various candies, ice creams, potato chips – have pulled
all those things from the laundry.
Seashells, pebbles, sticks, leaves, yup all those too.
But bullets? Gevalt.
Israel has lived far too long with a level of “normal” that has
hardened our senses. When I take a bus on a Sunday morning to Herzliya or Tel
Aviv and I am surrounded by machine gun toting soldiers, I accept that as
normal. When my kid’s youth group goes on a trip need to order a guard with a
gun strapped to his wait to accompany us. OK, he also has first aid training
but don’t think he is killing mosquitoes with a magnum .45.
I am not starting a discussion here on gun control laws – but
there is nothing normal about a society where guns are so prevalent. Sure, statistically
we have less civilian gun violence in Israel than in the US, but that’s not
saying much.
The reason our soldiers carry guns with them at all times is
because the “front line” is potentially every street corner. In a tiny country
(land mass wise, not ego) where at the narrowest the State is less than an hour’s
bike ride. We have over the past twenty years endured waves of terrorism reaching
every public gathering place (malls, restaurants, beaches, etc.).
We have “normalized” our situation (purposefully not getting
into here the potential ways out of our situation) and go about our business as
if 18/19 year old kids walking around with machine guns in the public sphere is
“normal.”
Our army experience is very different from the US and many
other countries. Our soldiers come home on average every two weeks, sometimes
every week (and there are those who are not in combat units that often live at
home – but still usually carry guns). And yes, we do their laundry.
All I am saying is – it should NOT be normal to find bullets
in the washing machine.